Etiquette
June 30, 2026 4 min read

The five questions guests always ask (answer them before they do)

Every couple discovers the same thing in the final month: the questions never stop. And they're always the same five.

Answer them on the invitation itself, and the week before your wedding gets remarkably quiet.

1. “What do I wear?”

The most-asked question by far. “Formal”, “garden formal”, “black tie” — any clear phrase beats none. If the venue involves grass, sand or stairs, say so; your guests' shoes will thank you.

2. “Where exactly is it?”

A venue name is not directions. Link the exact map pin — one tap from the invitation to navigation. If parking is tricky or there's a shuttle, one line about it saves twenty messages.

3. “Can I bring the kids?” and 4. “What about gifts?”

Both deserve one gentle, unambiguous sentence each. “Adults-only celebration” or “little ones welcome”; “your presence is the gift” or a simple registry note. Ambiguity here is where awkward phone calls are born.

5. “When should I actually arrive?”

If the invitation says 4:00 and the ceremony starts at 4:00, half your guests will watch it from the car park. State the doors time and the ceremony time separately — and let the countdown on your invitation page do the reminding.

Five questions, five lines on a well-built invitation. That's the whole trick.

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